About Becky Pliego

I am grateful because God, in His grace, called me out of darkness and into his admirable light. When I did not look for Him, He found me. When I was in a pit of sin, He rescued me. I am not walking this road alone, my family is always with me, and we love Him, because He loved us first.

>Christmas by the Hour; How to Keep a Christ-Centered Christmas

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 I would love to share with you today a great family tradition we started three years ago that has helped us to keep Jesus at the center of our celebration in a very tangible, practical way every Christmas’s Eve followed by Christmas Day.

I start two weeks ahead to plan different activities, I jot down each of them and  keep them inside an envelope  in a basket. We keep an eye on the clock and every hour and a half  one of us (taking turns), goes to the basket and grabs and activity for all of us to do. Some of the activities are:

* Reading specific Bible verses which I write down beforehand and place in  little envelopes. The Gift of the Word is open.

* Singing Hymns. We have the name of several hymns (and the lyrics for them) in the basket. We bring Him worship.

* Reading short Christmas stories. Little kids enjoy this activity a lot; they like to remember the story of Jesus coming as a baby in a manger. We remember, we gaze at the miracle.

*  Praying, thanking. You might find a little note in an envelope saying: Lift up your voice in prayer. We come and bow down in prayer; He came to open the Way, He is the Way.

*  There will be some poetry to read that I found at Desiring God by John Piper. These poems are a beautiful way to remember, to worship, to ponder. I found this other poem that I will certainly include in the celebration’s basket…White.

*This year I want to include some other things to the basket…

Any suggestions?; What would YOU add?

May you start all your preparations full of anticipation and joy!


May God give you a Christmas full of Him!

 Please join us at Like a Bubbling Brook for a Parade of Christmas!

This is a repost from the archives (December 2009)

Celebrate the Incarnation of our Lord! Read other related posts…

Celebrating the Incarnation of our Lord – The Incarnation of our Lord is the heart of Christmas-
Celebrating the Incarnation of our Lord – A story for little souls-
Celebrating the Incarnation of our Lord – A guest post by Elizabeth DeBarros, Gifts We Bring-

 Related posts around the corner:

Have you thought about The Mystery of His coming? Please read this, over at Rebecca’s.
What about reading 12 Days of Christmas with Spurgeon?

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This post is linked to “Sharing Christmas” @ The Well

>My Favorite List -At the Beach-

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I will bless the Lord at all times;
his praise shall continually be in my mouth.
My soul makes its boast in the Lord;
let the humble hear and be glad.
Oh, magnify the Lord with me,
and let us exalt his name together!
Psalm 34: 1-3

975. A visit with my Grandparents. The travel, the road, the laughter, the tears. The memories, the love.

976. Dominoes, who thought my children would still use the same set I used when I was little? Who thought they would enjoy it with my grandpa as much as I did?

977. Life, doesn’t it get more beautiful as it grows old? It reminds me of the sun which shines with all its splendor when it is going down each night.

979. A week breathing ocean breeze. (we flew in yesterday)

978. Bringing Advent with us. (We packed our Advent wreath, and devotionals!)

979. His handiwork; O, I see it and I praise Him!

980. Sunblock

981. Laughter

982. Quesadillas

983. Elda, her smile and warm welcoming.

984. Internet working

985. This morning.

986. Psalm 33

By the word of the Lord the heavens were made,
and by the breath of his mouth all their host.
He gathers the waters of the sea as a heap;
he puts the deeps in storehouses.
Let all the earth fear the Lord;
let all the inhabitants of the world stand in awe of him!
For he spoke, and it came to be;
he commanded, and it stood firm.
Psalm 33: 6- 9
987. Lessons from her silence. Thank you, Petra!
988.  These questions to ponder.
987.  His promises, always true.
988. This prayer book for wives.

989. Fresh brewed coffee.

990. My son, quietly gazing at the ocean.

991. My Beloved.

What is it that makes your heart sing  praises to Him today?

>Time to Study Philippians -Week Eight-

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Greetings to the ladies of our Philippians study~
Welcome to Week Eight – our final week!
This study, and the homework from our previous study, is a condensed version of Mining God’s Word – How To Study the Bible; Foundation Series by Bethlehem College and Seminary Press. I highly recommend that you purchase your own workbook at www(dot)bethlehemcollegeandseminary(dot)org – it would be a great tool for you to have.

“The angel answered, ‘The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called the Son of God. Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be barren is in her sixth month. For nothing is impossible with God.’
             ‘I am the Lord’s servant,’ Mary answered. ‘May it be to me as you have said.’ Then the angel left her.” Luke 1:35-38

May our spirits be as willing as Mary’s when God calls on us!
Let’s start with our homework assignment #1
Here is what I have written for the main point of Phil. 3:1-16:
            All of Paul’s abundantly Jewish heritage and his qualifications as God-fearing Jew won’t save him – only Christ and His righteousness can! Therefore, Paul’s hope rests in Him and Him alone. To have Christ, or to belong to Christ, is more valuable than any else this life has to offer.

Homework assignment #2

The main point of Phil. 3:17 – 4:9

            Paul encourages the Philippians to follow his example in Godly living – to put it into practice, because they belong to God’s kingdom. He also is very bold with them by repeating his commands to rejoice, to have unity, and to stand firm. He also commands them to train their thoughts to be Godly.
I had also asked you to read through the entire book of Philippians and record all the instances where joy, or rejoice is found. Whose joy? Why is there joy? etc.
Here is my list of the joy theme:
1:4 – joy – Paul has joy while praying because of their partnership in the gospel
1:18 – rejoice  – Paul rejoices because the gospel is proclaimed
1:18 – rejoice – Paul continues to rejoices because of the hope of his deliverance (future-looking)
1:25 – joy – refers to the Philippians’ progress and joy in the faith.
2:2 – joy – Paul’s joy will be complete when they are like-minded; live in unity
2:17 – rejoice – Paul will rejoice with the Philippians, even while in chains, when they stand firm, so that all his labor with them has not been in vain. 
2:18 – rejoice – Philippians should rejoice with Paul whether or not he is suffering
2:28 – rejoice –Philippians to rejoice upon seeing Epaphroditus again (don’t hide their feelings from him)
2:29 – joy – the Philippians are to have joy and honor men like Epaphroditus.
3:1 – rejoice – Paul tells them to rejoice “in the Lord”. Don’t get side tracked by the circumcision laws.
4:1 – joy – Paul refers to the brothers as his “joy and crown” (Isn’t nice to know when we give someone else joy?)
4:4 – rejoice – Paul is commanding them to rejoice, again and again. Don’t stop rejoicing! Be anxious for nothing…
4:10 – rejoiced – how Paul felt or reacted when the Philippians were able to renew their concern for him.
For the Written summary of the theme of joy, I would like to quote directly from the Mining God’s Word workbook (pg. 93) because what the authors’ have said is excellent, and worth having you read:

The theme of joy in Philippians is striking for several reasons. First, it is clear that joy can survive and even flourish in the context of suffering. Paul rejoices despite those seeking to afflict him (1:18); he rejoices even though he is being poured out as a drink offering (2:17); he commands the Philippians to rejoice even thought hey are suffering (1:29). Second, it is striking that joy is commanded. This is a repeated and emphasized injunction of the letter (2:18, 3:1, 4:4).

It is assumed that the Philippians have the capacity to obey Paul’s command. Third, Paul places joy at the center of Christian life. He will continue his ministry to the Philippians for their “joy in the faith” (1:25), he sets himself up as a model of joy (2:17 – 18), and as we already stated, he repeatedly command s the Philippians to rejoice. Fourth, seeing joy cannot be an impure pursuit because Paul desires it (2:2) and sends Epaphroditus for the joy of the Philippians (2:28), and unabashedly commands it. Fifth, and most importantly, joy is rooted in God. Paul uses the phrase “rejoice in the Lord” three times (3:1, 4:4, 10). Although the Philippians are often what prompts Paul’s rejoicing (whether it be their partnership or faith or help), the context of the letter makes it clear that Paul’s rejoicing is over the way in which God is being exalted in them as a work of grace (1:6, 2:13). So at every turn Paul shatters the common ideas about joy. Joy can exist in the midst of suffering, it can be commanded, it is at the center of Christian life, it should be pursued, and it is rooted in God alone.

Isn’t that a fabulous summary?
For today’s class, I will attempt to wrap up the rest of Philippians (4:10 –23). Please read these verses now and then come back.
OK, here is my summary:
Paul tells the Philippians that he rejoices greatly in the Lord and then explains why. He wants no misunderstanding between them. He acknowledges that they have always cared for him even though they may not have had the financial means to do so.  He seems to draw similarities between ‘being in need’ and also ‘having all of his needs met’, by the fact that he always relies and trusts in God no matter what circumstances God has placed him in. A sign of true contentment – an example he wants them to imitate. However, he wants them to know he is grateful and thankful that they remembered him and blessed him. He even calls to mind how many times in the past they have come to his aid. He equates the ‘fragrant offering’ that is acceptable to God, to the pleasing aroma of the OT sacrifices that were also acceptable to God. He reminds them that, as God has supplied his needs through them, that God will also supply their needs. He draws to a close with a Doxology (a liturgical expression to praise God), and then sends the final greetings from the saints with him, making a special point of mentioning the saints within Caesar’s household. This is a rather bold statement that lets the saints at Philippi know that the gospel message had spread even into Caesar’s household! Nothing can thwart the movement of the spirit of God.
That’s it. We’re finished with Philippians. Do you know more about the book of Philippians than when we started 8 weeks ago? Can you explain the reasons why Paul wrote this letter to the Philippians? Is being in prison a blessing or a curse? Can it be both?  Should it be both? Should we allow doubts/controversies into our hearts that are different from the gospel? Do we need more than Christ and His love and sacrifice to make our lives complete? Are your thoughts aligned with Christ Jesus? Do you want to be remembered as a Godly woman or one who is chastised for bickering? Can you grasp the idea of joy as a command? Is joy another emotion, like anger, that can come and go, or is it a reflection of the Holy Spirit living within each of us? (“The fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.” Gal. 5:22)
Thank you for working through this Epistle with me. I have enjoyed the time thinking through Paul’s teachings while writing it down for you. It has solidified what I already know, and reminded me of things I had forgotten.  May God be honored and praised by our lives from this day forth. Remember, the gospel of Christ is tidings of comfort and joy.
Blessings on your homes! Bye, bye~
Yours sister in Christ,
Eileen

>Quotes that Nourish

>I found this new place that I want to recommend to you today, The Reformed Quotes Fellowship,  a place created to “bring together those of us throughout the internet who have created and administer websites, blogs, and other media outlets that are dedicated to routinely posting quotes from writers, preachers, teachers, and scholastics of the reformed faith…” keep reading here

 Some of the members of this fellowship are J.C Ryle Quotes, Real Men Love Pink, The Daily Spurgeon, and The Octavius Winslow Archive among others.

Inspired by them and by some of my friends like Christina at Heavenly Springs and Diana at Theology for Girls, who also love to post quotes that encourage us to live a life that glorifies Christ; I will start posting every Thursday, quotes that nourish my soul – and hopefully yours too-   I will be quoting from “saints of the past and present”. (You can read other posts I have written in this category by clicking “Borrowed Words” and “Valley of Vision“under Labels on the right side bar -other quotes are scattered among other posts.)

This month I will be posting quotes that have to do with the Incarnation of Our Lord

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“Christmas has really become a hopeless muddle of confusion. The humility and the poverty of the stable are somehow confused with the wealth and indulgence and selfishness of gift giving. The quietness of Bethlehem is mingled with the din of shopping malls and freeway traffic. The soberness of the incarnation is somehow mixed with the drunkenness of this season. Blinking colored lights somehow have some connection to the star of Bethlehem. The room in the inn, so obscure, so dirty with such meager fare, somehow embraces the thought of a warm house, a fireplace and opulent feasting. Cheap plastic toys for little kids with which to play out their follies are mixed with the true value of the gifts given by wise men. Salesmen somehow get mixed up with shepherds. Angels are confused with flying reindeer, one of which even has a red nose. The pain of childbirth is mixed with the parties. The filth of the stable is confounded with the whiteness of fresh snow. And then there’s Mary, Joseph, Perry Como and Bing Crosby. And so it goes.
Humility is the theme of Christmas…humility

St. Augustine wrote so beautifully of His humility, so beautifully. “The word of the Father,” he said, “by whom all time was created was made flesh and born in time for us. He without whose divine permission no day completes its course, wished to have one of those days for His human birth. In the bosom of His Father He existed before all the cycles of the ages. Born of an earthly mother, He entered on the course of the years on that very day. The maker of man became man that He ruler of the stars might be nourished at the breast, that He the bread might be hungry, that He the fountain might thirst, that He the light might sleep, that He the way might be wearied in the journey, that He the truth might be accused by false witnesses, that He the judge of the living and the dead might be brought to trial by a mortal judge, that He justice itself might be condemned by the unjust, that He discipline personified might be scourged with a whip, that He the foundation might be suspended on a cross, that He courage incarnate might be weak, and He security itself might be wounded, and He life itself might die.” Humility.” 

John Macarthur, The Incarnation of the Triune God

Related Posts:

Celebrating the Incarnation of Our Lord -part I-
Borrowed Words, from the Valley of Vision
Borrowed Words -Holy, Holy, holy

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>The Holiness of God – Chapter Eight-

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How do I respond to God’s holiness?

How do I respond when He says, “Becky, be holy because I am Holy”?

The easiest thing to do is be moralistic about it; and start working on the externals only. It is at times easier to say no to a movie or to a certain music than to say no to a habit that seems more “spiritual” but at the end of the day, in the quietness of my bed,  I know it is not what God wants for me.

God justified me when I did not deserve His forgiveness, but He wants me to work on my salvation with fear and trembling every day; Sproul says it well:

“To be spiritual has only one real purpose. it is a means to an end, not the end itself. The goal of all spiritual exercise must be the goal of righteousness. God calls us to be holy. Christ sets the priority of the Christian life: ‘But seek first His kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well’ (Matt. 6:33) The goal is righteousness”

This chapter is one in which we are encouraged  to examine ourselves and see what are we living for; how are we pursuing this goal that God has set before us.

We need to be careful on how we live our lives, on how we journey under His sun every day. Let us not forget that the devil will be trying to deceive even the chosen ones. Maybe we think we are pursuing a holy life when in reality we are just pursuing a moralistic life. We might miss the mark, if we don’t consider our steps and our motives in the light of the Scripture-

In this chapter Sproul also explains about the differences between happiness and pleasure, read his words:

“My sins have not brought me happiness. But my sins have brought me pleasure. I like pleasure. I am still very much attracted to pleasure. Pleasure can be great fun. And not all pleasures are sins. There is much pleasure to be found in righteousness. But the difference is still there. Sn can be pleasurable, but it never brings happiness.
Now if I understand all this why would I ever be tempted to sin? It seems silly that anyone who knows the difference between happiness and pleasure would continue to trade happiness for pleasure. It seems utterly stupid for a person to do something that he knows will rob him happiness. Yet we do it. The mystery of sin is not only that it s wicked and destructive but also that it is so downright stupid”

It is just incredible to read this and be willing to admit that this is our condition -at least mine– . Many times I trade the happiness of serving those around me for the momentary pleasure of doing my own thing. This is indeed a stupid thing to do.

Because God has called me to be holy where I am now, then I must start seeing my home as holy ground, as a sacred place. It is in my daily life, the life I live behind dishes, and books, and math, and cooking, and talking and listening, the place in which I must show myself holy.

Dr. Sproul goes on to explain what does it mean to be “transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:1-2) This is a very interesting study of the verse,  so I invite you to read the book to find out all the treasures hidden there! However, I do want to say that I agree with the author:

“It is a tragedy that the matter of nonconformity has been treated by Christians at a shallow level. The simplistic way of non conforming is to see what is in style in our culture and then do the opposite…
The call of nonconformity is a call to a deeper level of righteousness that goes beyond externals. When piety is defined exclusively in terms of externals, the whole point of the apostle’s teaching has been lost. Somehow we have failed to hear Jesus’ words that it is not what goes into a person’s mouth that defiles a person, but what comes out of that mouth. We still want to make the kingdom a matter of eating and drinking.
Anyone can avoid dancing or going to the movies. These require no great effort of moral courage. What is difficult is to control the tongue, to act with integrity, to reveal the fruit of the Spirit”

This is my prayer today, I do not want to be conformed to this world; but I long to be transformed by the renewing of my mind. I want to “rigorously pursue the kingdom of God”, to study the Word of God deeply, to “master the Word of God”.

Sanctification is a process but is not a passive one. It is one that requires a real, and “serious level of sacrifice”

“That is the call of excellence we have received. We are not to be like the rest of the world, content to live our lives with a superficial understanding of God. We are to grow dissatisfied with spiritual milk and hunger after spiritual meat”

May His grace abound as we pursue our calling to live a holy life under His sun and by His grace,

Becky

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I am reading this book with a great community of great men and women; read more about this chapter at Challies today.

Related Posts:

The Holiness of God- Chapter Seven -War and Peace with a Holy God-
The Holiness of God – Chapter Six -Holy Justice-

This month we are Celebrating the Incarnation of Our Lord; would you join us?

Celebrating the Incarnation of Our Lord – Part I-