Lord, Teach us to Pray

My dear sister in the Lord, Diane from Theology for Girls, is here today to share with us about prayer.
Thank you, thank you, thank you, Diane!

When Becky blessed me with the honor of writing today’s blog for Daily on My Way To Heaven on the subject of prayer, I began contemplating the various elements involved in prayer. As well, the pattern or structure of how we ought to commune with God should be considered. Truly, volumes have been written on both counts.

Certainly, when we think of an appropriate blueprint for prayer, our usual consideration draws us to the greatest model set forth in Scripture by our Lord when he instructed his disciples how to pray in Matthew 6. A second important example would be Christ’s high priestly prayer with the Father in John 17.

As I compared both of these passages I noticed that the predominant themes were exaltation of God the Father and the Son. These prayers also reflect the Psalms which are replete with the adoration of God. In both prayers our Lord begins by addressing God as Father. In Matthew, Christ emphasizes the holiness of God’s name and in John He emphasis the glorification of Himself by the Father. Both prayers close with a focus on the glory of God the Father (Mt) and of God the Son. (Jn).


Matthew 6:9

“Our Father who is in heaven, Hallowed be Your name.”

Matthew 6:13

“For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.”


John 17:1

“Father, the hour has come; glorify Your Son, that the Son may glorify You,”

John 17:14,26

“Father, I desire that they also, whom You have given Me, be with Me where I am, so that they may see My glory which You have given Me, for You loved Me before the foundation of the world.” (vs 24)

Requests on our behalf for our spiritual and temporal needs are sandwiched between these magnifications of God’s glory and holiness. When we shift gears in prayer from our adoration of God to confession, thanksgiving, and supplication we understand that God intimately cares for us as a loving heavenly Father. He has instructed us how to pray about our needs, yet we must keep in mind that God’s glory should be foremost in our petitions for ourselves and for others.

The church today has been swallowed up by self-absorption. An Arminian view of Scripture saturating our theology for more than a hundred years has resulted in an approach to God that has become increasingly man centered. Our prayer and worship has become more self gratifying than God glorifying which is reflected in the way we pray and also in much of our modern Christian music. We hardly know how to sing or speak to God without using the word “I” in every phrase. Just by way of exercise, we might want to try praying for 30 minutes without using the words “I, me, or my”.

Furthermore, the name of Jesus Christ has been denigrated not only by those outside the church but by those within. A Google search of “Jesus Is My Homeboy” pulled up more than 98,000 hits, many titles being so blasphemous I was sorry I had clicked on it.

The proper use of and reverence for God’s holy name is so important that the 3rd commandment warns,

“You shall not take the name of the LORD your God in vain, for the LORD will not leave him unpunished who takes His name in vain.” Exodus 20:7

Ezekiel prophesied:

“I will vindicate the holiness of My great name which has been profaned among the nations, which you have profaned in their midst.” Ez 6:23

Such little reverence is given to the proper use of the name of Jesus Christ that many in the church no longer end their prayers “In Jesus Name”. Our Lord placed great emphasis on this by saying: “Truly, truly, I say to you, if you ask the Father for anything in My name, He will give it to you.”

In conclusion, when we come to our great God in prayer, let us first address Him as Father with adoration for His Holy name. We must not come to Him with an attitude of improper familiarity. He is our Friend but He not our “buddy”. He is our Holy Father and we are indeed privileged to address him as such. We should passionately pray that His will would be accomplished and His glory pronounced. Let us bring our petitions to Him with boldness bathed in humility. Finally, we should conclude our special time of communion by invoking the precious name of Jesus.

6 thoughts on “Lord, Teach us to Pray

  1. Dear Friends,

    I am so blessed to follow your journey too! I pray the Lord will grant us to speak always words that will encourage each other to grow more like Him!

    And a glimpse to next week… Christina, will be sharing on prayer too next Friday!

    Thank you, Diane!

    Love to you all,


  2. Thank you sister Becky for giving me this opportunity to share some thoughts about the wonderful privilege of prayer our Lord has blessed us with.

    And thank you all for your kind words and thoughtful insights.
    You are all a blessing to me!

    I so enjoy reading Daily On My Way To Heaven and pray that God will continue to bless your ministry here Becky.

    With much love!


  3. Thank you, Diane! I really like the paragraph about how prayer has become so man- or self-centered. Sometimes I go to the epistles just to read how Paul would pray for others. No matter what his circumstances were, his focus was always on others and their spiritual growth. I’m not saying that we should never pray for ourselves. The Lord’s Prayer, our model prayer tells us to ask God to give us… to forgive us… to deliver us… but for His Glory and not our fleshy wants. Many blessings!


  4. Oh, Diane! You have written a beautiful and timely piece.

    What you are saying has never been more true!

    “The church today has been swallowed up by self-absorption” It “has resulted in an approach to God that has become increasingly man centered.”

    The more we compromise the Gospel truth the easier it is to take a casual and irreverent approach to a Holy God. May we return to the biblical pattern that our Father has left us!

    Also, when we truly exalt His name & ascribe Him Glory, when we put Him in His rightful place, faith will inevitably follow to believe God and trust Him for the very things that we are praying for.

    Beautiful, Diane! I am encouraged!

    And, thank you Becky! Love to you both my beautiful sisters!


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