>"God Let Me Know My Child is in Heaven"

>“God let me know my child is in heaven” is the phrase that someone goggled and arrived here. (Shown in my blogger stats) Sadly I don’t know who this person is. But as soon as I read those words I grieved… and I am still praying for this person; and in case she comes back again, I would like  her to read this letter.

Dear Friend,

I don’t know what happened to your child, nor the age, nor the circumstances. I don’t know if your child was 21, 15 or 3 years old when she died or was still in your womb and never saw the light. I wasn’t there, but there is a Sovereign God who was there.

I wish I’d had an answer to your question, but I don’t. However, I have something to say to you. When we face the death of the one our soul loves and we start asking these questions it is because God has put eternity in our hearts. We know that once we breath our last breath there is more… Meditate on this, my dear friend, meditate on the state of your soul, because you will sure breath a last breath one day.  Many times the sorrows that come to our lives, and the tears we shed are like the rain that waters a seed in our soul. Search your heart, weep now for your own sins; don’t waste your sadness, let it bring in your life the fruit of repentance. Your son is not here in the land of the living, but you are, you are still breathing and moving, you still have time to repent from your sinful ways and turn to God who is the Comforter of all His children.

O my friend, don’t be drowned in the flood of sorrow and pain, repent of your sinful ways and  then find in God a Father, a merciful Father who knows our condition and remembers that we are but dust. If you repent of your sinful ways you’ll meet God as a tender and compassionate God in which your life will be hidden and you’ll find peace, even though, you still won’t have all the answers you are looking for. If you don’t repent, the burden of sin and sorrow will drown you without hope, and you will meet God not as a loving Father but as a just God who abhors sin. You won’t find in His hand comfort but judgment.

These are hard for words, words that may seem harsh, but believe me, these are the only words that can bring you peace and comfort, not only for the now, but for eternity.

I’ll pray for you today, that you may find in Him Life.

>Octavius Winslow’s Book -Chapter Five, Trial a Help Heavenward –

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Octavius Winslow Archive

What a great little book Octavius Winslow wrote, Help Heavenward; I would really like to encourage you to read it. Grace Gems has the whole book on line; and believe me, the chapters are short and full of encouragement for the believer.

Here are my favorite quotes and some of my reflections on chapter 5, Trial, a Help Heavenward.

“That we must through much tribulation enter into the
kingdom of God.”—        Acts 14:22.

If God’s providence has you going through a season in your life which is characterized by trial, be encouraged today as you read the words of this godly man that reminds us that trials in the life of the believer are a blessing, because they draw us closer to God.

“We should have a more vivid conception of the power of affliction as an ingredient of holiness if we kept more constantly in remembrance the fact that all the afflictive, trying dispensations of the believer are covenant dispensations— that they are not of the same character nor do they produce the same results as in the ungodly. They are among the “sure mercies of David.” In the case of the unregenerate, all afflictions are a part and parcel of the curse, and work naturally against their good; but in the case of the regenerate, they are, in virtue of the covenant of grace, transformed into blessings, and work spiritually for their good. Just as the mountain stream, coursing its way, meets some sanative mineral by which it becomes endowed with a healing property, so afflictions, passing through the covenant covenant, change their character, derive a sanctifying property, and thus become a healing medicine to the soul.”

How different are these words than the ones preached in many pulpits today! How comforting it is to know that because of God’s Grace, because He has called us to be in His covenant, trials help us heavenward. He is with us, He is working in us through each one of those trials. It is all about our relationship with Him; our sanctification, our loving Him more than anything in this world. It is about being able to say, “The Lord is Shepherd I SHALL NOT WANT…”

“Trial, too, increases our acquaintance with Christ. We know more of the Lord Jesus through one sanctified affliction than by all the treatises the human pen ever wrote. Christ is only savingly known as He is known personally and experimentally. Books cannot teach Him, sermons cannot teach Him, lectures cannot teach Him; they may aid our information and correct our views, but to know Him as He is, and as we ought, we must have personal dealings with Him. Our sins must bring us to His blood, our condemnation must bring us to His righteousness, our corruptions must bring us to His grace, our wants must bring us to His fullness, our weakness must bring us to His strength, our sorrow must bring us to His sympathy, and His own loveliness and love must attract us to Himself. And oh, in one hour, in a single transaction, in a lone sorrow, which has brought us to Jesus, who can estimate how rapidly and to what an extent we have grown in a knowledge of His person and work, His character and love? I need not enlarge upon other branches of spiritual knowledge which trial promotes—how it increases our personal intimacy with God as our loving Father and Friend; and how it opens our understanding to discern the deep things of God in the Scriptures, so that the Bible in the hour of affliction appears like a new revelation to us. Oh yes, times of trial are times of growth in experimental knowledge.”

Trials are seasons in which we can know Him in a way that we would not know Him otherwise. Trials are seasons in the life of the Christian where he can not only see what is inside of him, but he can also meet God in a new and beautiful way through fervent prayer.

“Trial quickens us in prayer, and so effectually helps us heavenward. The life of God in the soul on earth is a life of communion of the soul with God in heaven. Prayer is nothing less than the Divine nature in fellowship with the Divine, the renewed creature in communion with God. And it would be as impossible for a regenerate soul to live without prayer, as for the natural life to exist without breathing. And oh, what a sacred and precious privilege is this!—is there one to be compared with it? When we have closed the door,—for we speak now of that most solemn and holy habit of prayer, private communion,—and have shut out the world, and the creature, and even the saints, and are closeted in personal, solemn, and confiding audience with God, what words can portray the preciousness and solemnity of that hour! Then is guilt confessed, and backslidings deplored, and care, unburdened, and sorrow unvailed, and pardon sought, and grace implored, and blessings invoked, in all the filial trustfulness of a child unbosoming itself in the very depths of a father’s love, pity, and succour. But precious and costly as is this privilege of prayer, we need rousing to its observance. Trial is eminently instrumental of this. God often sends affliction for the accomplishment of this one end—that we might be stirred up to take hold of Him.”

When trials come, let us see an opportunity to grow in our devotions, to be drawn closer to the One who loves us with perfect love and works all things for good in the life of His children. Let us rest in His arms through prayer and the meditation of His Word; let us see beyond ourselves and up to Him, who is able to sustain us and present us blameless at the day of Christ before God, the Father.

“Trials are necessary to wean us from the world. Perhaps nothing possesses so detaching, divorcing an effect in the experience of the Christian as affliction. The world is a great snare to the child of God. Its rank is a snare, its possessions are a snare, its honours are a snare, its enterprises are a snare, the very duties and engagements of daily life are a snare, to a soul whose citizenship is in heaven, and whose heart would fain be more frequently and exclusively where Jesus, its treasure, is… But God in wisdom and mercy sends us trial to detach us from earth, to lessen our worldly-mindedness, more deeply to convince us how empty and insufficient is all created good when His chastening is upon us, to intensify our affection for spiritual things, and to bring our souls nearer to Himself.”

May God open our ears to hear His Word of comfort today and eyes to see Him sustaining us through the storm.

“Lord, whom have I in heaven but Thee? 
and there is none upon earth that I desire beside Thee. 
Thou hast stricken and wounded and laid me low, 
but Thou wilt comfort, heal, and raise me up again. 
Righteous art Thou, O Lord, 
when I plead with Thee; 
yet let me talk with Thee of Thy judgments.
Let this trial detach me from the world, 
wean me from my idols,
transfer my heart to Thee, 
and speed my soul with a quicker step
heavenward.” 

Thanks to Matthew Blair @The Octavius Winslow Archive, who invited his readers to read this wonderful book.

>The Holiness of God – Chapter Seven-

>I am a homemaker, so as you can imagine, today I am busy preparing a feast to celebrate His goodness, but I just don’t want to skip this post; the book, the group, the conversation has been so rich.

Job Confessing His Presumption to God Who Answers from the Whirlwind; William Blake c. 1804

On this chapter Dr. Sproul takes us to see four different characters in the Bible; Jacob, Job, Habakkuk, and Saul; all of them wrestled with God. God overcame them and they found peace; all of them had questions to ask; all of them dared to raise their voices with questions, none of them got answers, instead they were summoned by God; He asked them some other questions and they could not answer.

I love the way Sproul talks about Job. Once Job found out that he did not have the answers to God’s questions and that God was not answering his questions, what happened?

” …Job was satisfied. even though God gave no answers, Job’s questions were put to rest.He received a higher answer than any direct reply could have provided. God answered Job’s questions not with words but with Himself. As soon as Job saw who God is, Job was satisfied. Seeing the manifestation of God was all that he needed. He was able to leave the details in God’s hands. Once God himself was no longer shrouded in mystery, Job was able to live comfortably with a few unanswered questions. When God appeared, Job was so busy repenting that he did not have time for further challenges. His rage was directed to himself: ‘I despise myself and repent in dust and ashes'”

Maybe questions have already come to your heart.

Maybe they will come in the near future.

What do we do with those questions?

Do we raise our fists trying to fight against God?

I just read, with tears,  the words of a young man who grew up in a an Evangelical Church, he tweeted: “I have decided to be an atheist because I have many questions and God has too many secrets”

Let our words be few; lest He turns towards us not to give us answers but to ask us questions which we will not be able to answer.

It is He who asks.

It is us who must learn to be quiet and be satisfied with the silence; It is us who must learn to trust in His Sovereign hand orchestrating every event in our lives, and so live comfortably with few unanswered questions.

We have heard people say that they are keeping a journal with many questions they plan to ask God one day in Heaven, let me share with you these words that  Persis, who has been tried by fire  once wrote:

“I am still pondering God’s greatness in His creation. I have so many questions that I would like to ask the Lord about the universe, creation, the fall of man… But when I’m in heaven, I wonder if I will even remember them. At that time, being in the presence of God will be enough. I’m thankful that I can look forward to that day.”

Let this words be our comfort, no matter how big our questions might be, if we fear the Lord, we should know that He is beyond and above all those questions we have, and one day, when we see Him face to face, all those questions will be like vapor, like shadows; His glory will be sufficient, and we will be in peace.

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Today I am grateful, because even though God is too wonderful for me to comprehend, and His holiness is beyond my reach, He has opened my eyes to see a glimpse of His glory and has given me the promise that I will behold Him face to face one day, and I will be satisfied, I will long for nothing no more.

Happy Thanksgiving to you!

 

>A Morning Prayer

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O God, ever blessed, who hast given me the night for the rest and the day for labour and service, grant that the refreshing sheep of the night now past may be turned to Thy greater glory in the life of the day now before me. Let it breed no slothfulness within me, but rather send me to more diligent action and more willing obedience.
Teach me, O God, so to use all the circumstances of my life to-day that they may bring forth in me the fruits of holiness rather than the fruits of sin.
Let me use disappointment as material for patience;
Let me use success as material for thankfulness;
Let me use suspense as material for perseverance;
Let me use danger as material for courage;
Let me use reproach as material for longsuffering;
Let me use praise praise as material for humility;
Let me use pleasures as material for temperance;
Let me use pains as material for endurance.
O Lord Jesus Christ, who for the joy that was set before Thee didst endure the cross, despising the shame, and art now set down at the right hand of the throne of God, let me consider Thee who didst endure such  contradiction of sinners against Thyself, lest I be wearied and faint in my mind.
‘But that toil shall make thee
Some day all Mine own,-
And the end of sorrow
Shall be near My throne’
Holy God, I would remember before Thee all my friends and those of my own household, especially__________ and _______________, beeseching Thee that in Thy great love Thou wouldst keep them also free from sin, controlling all their deeds this day in accordance with Thy most perfect will.
Amen.

A Diary of Private Prayer
Twenty- fourth day

>Gratitude in the Valley

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The Peasant Family, by Josef Israëls

Having a gratitude attitude when a table is full and your heart is merry is easy; but there are certain seasons in life when the Lord leads you to the valley. You know it is His hand  leading you into trial, and you don’t want to go.

Our friend is dying; doctors say her brain is not working that she doesn’t feel anything, yet she has tears and her heart beat raises when she hears her husband’s voice or when her daughter in law lays her hand on her womb carrying her first granddaughter.

How do you find words of gratitude here?

Our friends do not know the Word of Life. They do not  know Grace. I cried. I prayed. But couldn’t find gratitude words.

I am home now, my heart aches, my husband holds me tight and it is then that I think how gratitude also finds a way through tears and the holding of  hands of those hurting and whose hope is on images of saints. Isn’t this what I have taught my children so many times? Give thanks to God in the valley, through tears and pain raise your voice and count His blessings.

824.  Being able to hold my hopeless friend’s hands.

825. Crying with those who cry.

826. Praying in the quiet.

829. Common Grace flowing in a hospital.

830. Doctors.

831. The mystery of the human brain.

832. Reminders of how weak we are.

833. Coffee and donuts.

834. Kleenex.

836. Muttering prayers.

837. The family table.

838. Conversations around the table.

839. A kitchen full with my children talking about their day.

840. My mom’s great  recovery from her broken wrist.

841. A kiss in the car.

842. Words to encourage friends in distress.

843. Being a phone call away from my sister.

844. Studying Philippians. What a treasure it has been!

845. Memory projects completed.

846. Having hope during the trials.

847.  Sloppy Joes on Sunday

848. Life in a clay pot.

849. Studying with diligence.

850. A house full of music.

851. Flowers bathed in morning light.

852. Being able to think.

853. Finding a way with words.

How do you praise God in the Valley?

More on Gratitude:

My Favorite List every Monday
Yes, I will Open the Box
Gratitude Monday, Borrowed Words

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Peace Under His Sun

We are journeying under His sun daily,  fighting a battle against our flesh, against the world, against the devil; we find a corner in our home and sit while everything is revolving around.

Eugène Delacroix: The Storm on the Sea of Galilee, 1854

Do you feel like you are losing your peace?

Peace, a beautiful word, a great longing of our soul, yet so misunderstood.  Peace, my dear friend, first of all cannot be found elsewhere but in Jesus; true peace is only found when we know that our sins have been washed away by His blood.

I am not talking here about that kind of peace that many “Christians” pursue nowadays; they live in sin, but they say that their soul is not troubled and they are at peace, so it should be ok. O, I have heard this, it breaks my heart to see people deceiving themselves and mocking God. This is not the peace I am talking here.

The perfect peace I am talking about is that which comes from God the Father to his own; is that peace which is a gift from God to those who honor and fear His name.

I am talking about the peace that perseveres and walks hand in hand with our trust in God’s Word.

“You keep him in perfect peace
whose mind is stayed on you,
because he trusts in you.
Trust in the Lord forever,
for the Lord God is an everlasting rock.”


Isaiah 26: 3-4

Read again the Bible verse, read the promise…God is not only the one who gives us true peace, but He is the Keeper of our peace. He keeps us in perfect peace. He does that.

He keeps us in perfect peace, he we watch the news, and when our husband job is not going well, He keeps us in perfect peace when we have work to do and we are in that 28 days’ cycle,  we are kept in peace.

God is the one who keeps us in peace, but He asks one thing from us here, perseverance.

He asks us to stay our minds upon Him.

We must persevere in His Word; this the way to live in His perfect peace under His sun.

Let us abide in His word.

Let us read the Word, let us drink from it until our soul finds rest; let us memorize it, meditate upon it. This is the only way to pursue true peace.

We easily “lose our peace”, not because God has left us, but because we have not been persevering on the meditation of His Word.

Listen to the words of your mouth, listen to the thoughts of your mind. Is the Word of God reigning in you? Are you abiding in the Word?

 If you abide in me, and my words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. By this my Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit and so prove to be my disciples. As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love.  If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love. These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.” John 15: 7-11 ESV

May your journey today be peaceful, full of Him, full of His Word.

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